Sorry for my late blog post. I had been busy with my school works. Anyway, I wanted to share a quick tip on how to look at your love life so you’re not only successful, but you keep things simple…
Whether you are a female or a male. I’ve meet different people in the past 2 months and we basically have this conversation about wanting to start dating again and have their love life be alive again, but everything seems so overwhelming… like there’s so much you need to know just to have love (real, lasting love) in your life.
So, my response is this, and I’m sharing it here with you now:
Society makes relationships out to be a big, long, complicated thing.
If you’re approaching things right, love is the easiest thing in the world. If you’re approaching things wrong, love is impossible.
The problem for most people is that they make love a GOAL, when really, love is best viewed as a bi-product of having the right attitude towards life.
That “attitude” or outlook is that you’re already happy and whole.
You don’t need a man or relationship or love to “make you” happy.
You live your life in a happy way. You are full of happiness and you bring happiness INTO everything you’re a part of.
Instead of trying to get things and extract happiness from them, you “live happy” and you allow your happiness to flow out into life.
I realize that might sound a bit airy fairy, so I’ll put it another way . . .
Your vibe is what determines how much love you attract from the world.
Your vibe is determined by your mood. So when you make being in a good, inspired, happy mood your top priority in life, your vibe naturally becomes radiant and irresistibly attractive to everyone around you.
You will naturally and effortlessly attract love from all angles in your life.
And as a bonus, you’ll avoid a huge trap that many women fall into: since you are already happy and whole, you don’t go seeking out a man to “give you” love or a relationship.
Rather, you are open to love… and when you spend time with anyone, your focus is on enjoying your time with them because, after all, you’re not trying to get anything. You’re already happy and whole!
If you re-read this comment every day and take a minute or two to contemplate it, I think it will massively help bring about the kind of love life you want.
You don’t need one million tips and tricks. You just need to realize that love starts from within and flows out. And how do you know you are filled with love from within?
You feel good inside: happy, whole and at peace.
Hope this helps,
Much love 🙂
“The wide world is all about you: You can fence yourselves in, but you cannot forever fence it out”. -J. R. R. Tolkien